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Sir Richard
Baker Wilbraham Bt
Late Welsh Guards
by Paul de Zulueta
formerly Welsh Guards
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When Richard Baker Wilbraham left the Welsh Guards and transferred to
the Reserves, he received a letter from the Regimental
Adjutant saying, ‘I
rather think there is not much likelihood of our
wanting to recall you from New
York, but it might be an idea to have your address
there just in case we need
to mount an Expeditionary Force to block the Panama
Canal’. Richard was never
quite sure if the Regimental Adjutant’s letter was in
jest. In later years,
however, he would often say that it was the unstuffy
and gently humorous nature
of the Welsh Guards which had so endeared him to the
Regiment.
Richard chose the
Welsh Guards on the advice of
his uncle, Colonel Hugh Jones-Mortimer who had been
captured at Boulogne in
1940 serving with the Second Battalion Welsh Guards.
Jones-Mortimer spent the
rest of the war in a POW camp where he taught himself
fluent Welsh. Richard’s
only other connection with the Regiment was that he
lived in the border county
of Cheshire. Ironically, the founding fathers of the
Welsh Guards in 1915 were
largely Grenadier officers drawn from the border
counties with Wales.
Richard was educated
at Pinewood which had been
evacuated to Devon at the outbreak of the war. There
were regular prison
outbreaks from Dartmoor Prison nearby. Much to his
excitement, Richard found
himself one summer’s day playing cricket and fielding
at long leg only to have
the ball returned to him by an escapee lurking in the
outfield wearing prison
garb stamped with the distinctive broad arrow. History
does not relate what
happened next. Richard went on to Harrow, he was third
generation of his family
to do so, where he was head of house and described by
the headmaster as an ‘effective
right-hand man with just the right blend of firmness
and understanding’.
Richard became a
National Service officer in
1952. The blend of firmness and understanding, which
his headmaster had
astutely observed in him, stood Richard in good stead
when he took over his
platoon in the Battalion which had been posted to
Berlin. It was five years
into the Cold War between the Soviet Union and the
West, though Richard’s only
memory from that time was guarding Rudolf Hess in
Spandau Prison. The rest of
his time as a National Service officer was spent in
Aldershot, the Guards Depot
at Pirbright and London. Richard took part in the 1953
Birthday Parade and Her
Majesty’s Coronation a week later but in the rather
less glamorous role as
street liner. It was, however, a lively time to be in
London as Britain threw
off the privations of the war and began to embrace the
second Elizabethan age.
As Richard later recalled with more than a hint of
nostalgia, ‘There
were parties four or five days a week
and I found myself stumbling onto the parade ground
for early morning drills
with next to no sleep and an empty stomach’.
Richard had won a
place at Magdalene College,
Cambridge, to read Agriculture or what is now called
rather more prosaically
Land Economy. His father reminded him that if he
wanted to live at Rode Hall,
the family estate in Cheshire since 1669, he would
need to be ‘something in the
City.’ A telephone call to a family friend, Sir Lionel
Fraser, Chairman of the
merchant bank, Helbert Wagg now part of the Schroders
Group, and Richard was
soon sitting on a tall stool, writing a ledger and
earning £12 a week. He did
not sit still for long. ‘My word is my Bond’,
relationships based on trust and
whom you knew, ensuring the directors’ lunches at
Schroders were a much
sought-after invitation for clients, and Richard rose
rapidly to become
something of a City grandee. He was a trustee to the
Duke of Westminster (the
Grosvenor family were Cheshire neighbours) and
Chairman of the Bibby Shipping
Line in Liverpool. The Wilbraham Coat of Arms and
motto, In Porto Quies (Quiet
in Port) was a touch at odds with a thriving shipping
line as Sir Derek Bibby
was fond of pointing out, but he was more than pleased
with Richard Wilbraham’s
light touch on the tiller.
Richard was blessed in
his marriage to Anne
Bennett. They had three daughters and a son. There
seemed little difficulty in
choosing Wilbraham sons’ names over the centuries. It
was either Richard,
Randle, Roger, or Rafe. Richard’s son, Randle succeeds
to the Baronetcy.
Conscientious though
Richard was in his
business and commercial life, it was all a means to an
end, and the end was the
preservation of Rode Hall and its Gardens, the
Wilbraham family Seat for 350
years. The family’s provenance went back to Sir
Richard de Wilburgham, Sheriff
of Cheshire in 1259. Rode Hall is famous for its
porcelain collection which, at
the end of the war, had to be recovered from dozens of
water-resistant crates
buried in the lake lest the Nazis got their hands on
it. On inheriting the house,
Richard and his wife, Anne, set about restoring the
house to its illustrious
past. A particular attraction is the annual snowdrop
walks drawing thousands of
visitors at the first glimpse of spring.
Richard, in the
enduring words of Kipling’s
poem If, more than filled the ‘unforgiving
minute’, balancing his City
career, helping to bring up a young family of four,
and fulfilling the
responsibilities that came with his inheritance in his
beloved Cheshire. He was
High Sheriff and Deputy Lieutenant. He never lost
touch with the Regiment and
served as a regimental trustee for close to two
decades.
His
final
years after a life at full tilt were physically
difficult. His faith sustained
him as did the prospect of his Diamond Wedding
Anniversary which he, Anne, and his
wider family and friends celebrated last March.
Richard’s mother, Betty, once
said of him that he was ‘Pure Gold’. It was an
apposite description. Richard
was solid and dependable to the last.
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