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John
Manningham-Buller, Viscount Dilhorne
Late Coldstream Guards
by Colonel Simon Vandeleur
formerly Coldstream Guards
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John Mervyn Manningham-Buller, Viscount Dilhorne, died
on 25th June 2022 aged 92. Born in 1932, one
of four children and the only son of Sir Reginald
Manningham-Buller Bt, and his
wife Lady Mary, daughter of the Earl of Crawford. One
of his sisters, Eliza,
went on to serve as Director General of MI5 (2002-07). Educated at Eton,
he was commissioned from
RMA Sandhurst into the Regiment in 1952, where he
excelled at athletics. He was
promoted Lieutenant in 1954 and retired in 1957 having
served with the Regiment
in Egypt and Germany. During the Suez crisis in 1956
he served with the 3rd
Battalion in the Canal Zone. At the time his father
was the Attorney General
and had advised the British Government that the
invasion of Egypt was illegal
under international law. He went on to train as a
singer, an accountant and in
1979 was called to the Bar.
It is probably fair to
say that John was not a
natural soldier, his many talents lay elsewhere. He
was passionate about
singing and had a beautiful deep bass voice. He was a
stalwart of amateur
choirs – notably the London Welsh Male Voice Choir -
and travelling opera
companies. He often performed as a soloist, including
the role of Swallow, the
lawyer and magistrate whose appearances book-end
Britten’s Peter Grimes.
In 1985 he sang a
moving solo at his son James’
wedding, taking a break from the normal father-in-law
speech. In 1993 he
released a self-financed CD, Songs of Glinka and
Tchaikovsky. He learnt
Russian in order, he said, to put on a better accent
when singing his Russian
repertoire of songs. Sadly, he persuaded himself not
to train as a professional
singer, and he first trained as an accountant after
his spell in the Army,
working for Arthur Andersen. His political career
peaked as a member of
Wiltshire County Council from 1967-70.
He did not enjoy
accountancy and was called to
the bar in by the Inner Temple in 1979. He specialised
in land law and
inheritance tax. On the death of his father he took
his seat in the House of
Lords where he served on various scrutiny committees.
He loved motorcycles
and was the proud owner
of, over the years, a Vincent Black Prince, various
BMWs, a Ducati and lastly a
brace of Laverdas. For many years he would tour Europe
with his son James
riding pillion. He was elected to the Nulli Secundus
Club in 1959 and latterly
was a regular diner, where he enjoyed meeting the
younger generation of the
Regiment. During the recent pandemic, the Club put the
unused wine into a
lottery for members and the look of unadulterated joy,
when he discovered that
he had won a case of the finest Pomerol, was a great
sight. His son James
joined the Welsh Guards.
In 1955 he married
Gillian Stockwell with whom
he had two sons and a daughter. The marriage was
dissolved and in 1981 he
married Professor Susannah Eykyn, who survives him
with the children of his
first marriage and to whom we extend many condolences.
Nulli Secundus.
With
thanks
to The Daily Telegraph (obituary, 2nd July
2022)
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